tim says: November 23, 2010 at 6:12 pm crystal bay you lucked out and got to pick your friends unlike the deal with family congrats. when i went through my divorce 20 years ago i went to some meeting of divirced guys on saturday mornings and came away saying ???these guys are a mess,i got to get outta here fast??? family feels that way sometimes too. i have the person to contact to get rolling in