If I look at an older post written in the aftermath of ElevatorGate by Jen McCreight, now a member of Freethought Blogs, her message is that there is a time and a place for flirting, hook-ups, etc., and even said things such as Feel free to say I am cute when I am rocking my black cocktail dress at Penn Jillette's party at TAM 9 and Feel free to tell raunchy jokes when I am having a beer at post-ta