ion In Marriage, A Plus Or Minus? by Olasaint: 1:02pm On May 10, 2013 I have been married for a while, and Open communication is a rule in my house. it creates the following scenarios- I cannot have a girlfriend that will cost me more than 5000 per month- I cannot go anywhere without my wife ending up knowing about it.- My wife knows all my past relationships (she once joked to my sister that she kn