If it is too spicy for you, replace some of it with the soy bean paste instead.- If you are adding meat to the dish, do it now. - Add the cabbage or kimchi and any other veggies you would like to use.- Add the rice pinkies. - Mix everything and let it simmer until the rice pinkies are soft, adding more liquid if necessary. - Add soy or more chili paste/soy bean paste to taste. - Top everything with