forgetting is one thing- you had it, and you lost it.loosing time is another- you have to think about what you *could* have donebut not having it at all- having a black hole in your mind to stare into and wonder. on the best of days it is unsettling. on the worst it is unmaking.there is a part that says the past is done and does not necessarily relegate who you are or where you go. and maybe he is a