My ds has always been very outgoing / sociable / chatty but has the organisational skills of a rabbit, so never met up with people at weekends, etc.Like others upthread though, in Yr7 he was swimming 3 nights a week, and at Scouts another, so, by the time you add in camps and other activities, he was socialising quite a lot, but all with 'organised' stuff, rather than 'getting off my backside and