.Good Vibes to You ! hlaser99 August 2007 Posts: 785 Hello again Hoodleehoo!I agree with Rumel's post 100%!In this statement: ???I try and focus on the pleasure in my prostate and make it grow?????? Although this is basically true, I would say . . . try to notice and observe the pleasure in your prostate and other areas, and watch them grow.You are on the correct path, for sure!