Posted: 12/17/2011 1:12:12 PMI am not sure what you mean by taking it slow.You mean before or after you have met?If it is the first, then most online daters realize that communication before the meet can be wasted time since chemistry is determined in person.If it is the second, then it seems you have not found anyone it is willing to invest the time you are needing to feel comfortable.In either case, if