So DH's whites, that he insists must be chlorine bleached, get their own load (and because they are getting bleach, ONLY plain white whites go in that load.) I have started using a tiny bit of a dryer sheet in my regular laundry, so I am being extra diligent to separate out towels and other things that I do not want fabric softener on. (If they are getting musty it is nice to add some oxygen bleach too!)