The Guy Who Gave Me the Eye began this behavior about seven months ago, while I was smack in the middle of my crisis, had lost about twenty-five lbs and had that I am waking up from my life as the mother of a Deaf Child...who the hell is Jodi phase thing happening to me.The man was a sixty-five year old disgusting drunk who slurred when he spoke, was half bald and wore a ponytail.