My 12 year-old daughter has ADHD,ODD and a new diagnosis of PDD-NOS. I live in MA and trying to get help but I am running into walls.She goes to regular middle school in a TLC Program and has an IEP,but I am always wondering if she would be better off in some kind of specailized school.How can I help her,at times she needs care like she is a toddler and other times she appears very grown up.She can be ve