I would get rid of my car before them (he is the biggest expense we have at about ??130 a month)My dds all love the dog (they are indifferent to the cat as he does not do much) and if I said to them we will have to either get rid of the dog or no (whatever) I know they would choose the dog. (I put whatever as tbh my kids do not do regular things -even before we got the dog- we might go to softplay one w