???And, of course, when you???re a kid, a farmer is a man and a ballerina is a woman, just like daddies are men and mommies are women??? and all the TV shows and books they give you when you???re a kid, they tell you that girls grow up to be women and boys grow up to be men, but they also tell you that you can grow up to be whatever you want??? so, I figured you got to choose.