yes, you hit the nail on the head, so to speak...finding that peace in your heart and head is the hardest thing. i was once a roving spirit, much like you. we moved about once every two years. it was so hard for me to learn to be still in one spot and be *happy* there.ahh, some days i wonder if i have it figured out. there are still those days that i just want to pick up and leave. it is something