ing, or the life he coulda lived if you and your money were present. but since she has the larger income, it shouldnt be a problem especially at 120k but are you saying that, you havent divorced yet and she wants to move so you wanna divorce her cause you wanna stay? you dont hate her guts, she isnt cheating, its just cause you dont wanna move? that sounds better! no i am not divorced, it hasnt ev