self:you are an idiot. i know you thought that mentioning your blog was a good idea in the 18th of a second you thought about it, but it was not. it was a really, really stupid thing to do. you would better hope he does not ask for the url. wait, wait, do not make that face or he will catch on. be cool. he will not ask. everyone has a blog these days, it is just assumed. seriously, why the hell would he care