His grandfather won the VC for bravery in the Zulu War.His father, Charles Terry, was an RAF squadron leader.His older brother, Peter, 67, is a retired army major.In his mid- 20s John Terry got a job in a top hotel on the western tip of gay Jamaica.This hotel was favoured by stars such as Harrison Ford, Ralph Lauren and David Bowie.John Terry gave a lot of time to supporting charities, and helping