from me A.S.A.P. = The MARRIED, STRAIGHT MALE. Type 3- guy makes eye contact & is polite, is not overly friendly, does not ask questions or try to get to know me, listens to what I have to say but is not especially interested, distracted and attention is focused elsewhere, does not seem to notice me or anything I am doing = the GAY MALE. I have encountered many guys who I can just tell are in the closet