im going through the exact same thing w/ my 6 yr. old and he will not go to the bathroom. at first he acted like he was scared to death of the bathroom, cuz there was a time when we went to a public bathroom and a buzzer thingy went off and he has a fobia type thing where he acts really scared of diffrent things but any way now hes in school full day and he goes in his pants both types wet & other