She can get over it or not come. (I do not know her, obviously, but she seems like the sort of person that might not be missed . . . . that sounds mean. but I have not had my coffee yet) I am all for accomodating various dieting restrictions - at both of Gabe's parties I have had vegetarians (thankfully no vegans, he is harder) and people allergic to everything in the onion family (garlic, shallots