ift to her.and i have two children who`s mother has had boyfriends, and is now bringing another one around.i don`t care much to know thier relationship. i watch to see how my boys are.they mostly want to be up here with us and recently this has been more the case, as this man has come around.he may choose to parent them. that`s his choice, if he wants to live in misery. they`ll eat his lunch and l