im new to this whole military thing too. my boyfriend has been there for 4 weeks now :(<br /><br />and we have also been together for a year and month. <br /><br />im very similar to you :(<br /><br />i know i dont know much, but so far ive had my good days, and other days i cry soo much and dont know how imma get through this.<br /><br />i think you just gotta remember you love him and hold on to