The man of the house does expect us to do almost everything in the house , i too experience the psychosis of is it fair or not . but you know if hes working fulltime hes not gonna want to clean or do laundry , the job we stay at home moms/wives signed up for sucks lol . honestly no matter what you do hes not going o clean however you can make him do things such as if u see it pick it up or take ou