I have a female friend who is a genuine 8/9, her mother was a model.Looks are largely unimportant to her.She assesses a man solely on how he treats her,having seen photos of 3 of her ex bfs I would say they were average in looks.They were not millionaires either :-)She believes marrying someone less good looking and at least 5 years older than her will mean she is likely to be treated better as a