loneliness, disconnectedness, shame, fear, disorientation, self-protection, and survive-at-all-costs-kinds-of-behaviors seem to be the kinds of places that are in deep need of God???s spirit and healing touch. and usually, not always, God???s healing touch doesn???t drop out of the sky directly into every orphan???s heart. like so many other ways of God, it seems like over and over he uses people