Although the family congregates only for funerals and other special events, Mrs. Nelson estimated that her 10 children have given her 95 grandchildren, 53 of whom are living; 180 great-grand-children, with 86 still alive and 57 great-great-grand-children. 200 at Birthday When Mrs. Nelson celebrated her ninety-fifth birthday last month, 200 of her relatives called at her home in Jay to wish her ???