Mum can feed herself pieces of bread, fruit or other types of food that she can hold if they are put in her left hand, and I???ve noticed that she eats more when she can feed herself. (Also, it helps her feel independent and aids in the return of dexterity to her fingers, as who wants to be spoon fed all the time?) The best way to let us know if you can come for a meal is to email me: calliope (at