But I (and a few others) have given you feedback on what it sounds like you are saying in this post: that it seems to contradict what you???ve said in other posts.I hear that that is not what you intended. <a href="http://dressmytruth.blogspot.com">http://dressmytruth.blogspot.com</a> Jeanine Byers Hoag ???it???s critical that we free ourselves from that need, particularly if they didn???t love us well at all.???That???s actually what I meant.