Let me quote what NLPer Ross Jeffries says on this:Love is a process you inflict on yourself(obviously when speaking about women, although there is true love, pure love, but that is not love for her but love of GOD) Helixer August 2010 Posts: 566 Another theme I like is how we search for our Anima to make us complete(1 with God) and with the above mentioned idea we can perhaps some day achieve th