this week, i have been sick. instead of being in bed on valentine's day with a sexy stud, i was in bed on valentines day with a box of kleenex. i didn't have the energy to go work, or do anything other than eating soup and catching up on the talk shows i miss every day.but in that time, i had time to think and truly feel blessed that i can say: trifling hoes are out of my life.in the short time it t