, on the third week i just told him .??? dude i cant be meeting and hanging out with u like this. we arent friends, i am ur colleague. i dont befriends ppl . i am just being nice to you cause ur new. ??? saying that screwed my life for 1 year, he wud always try to sabotage my work we never spoke except 1 or 2wice a month. and going to work became an extreme tension.