I think that you are a raceist from the 1950???s and 1960???s how could say that he was not a child he???s not 21 he was 17 still in school how would fill if it was your son and he was 6 feet 2 200 pounds you would say my son or my child you have to put youself in his mother and father shoes not black,white or other races come back to 2012.