I realize an EA is an EA weather it is involving a woman you know or an anonymous OW. With that said, the point I was trying to make is that our situation/my wrong doing didn't seem as severe as the stories I read here i.e. my husband has been having an EA with a co-worker, I found 200 texts and emails and they have lunch together 3x a week, and are intertwined in one another's lives, the A has bee