ake me out of context here please,but any other forms of activities are off the table.they are off of any other surface as well.i know its not a pretty picture but we have always been very...affectionate and now we have to deal with so many layers of disappointment(ours) and actual physical pain(hers not mine...i am strong!...like bull!!)that it doesnt even come up(unintended pun)i know she is hur