g more cooked veges than salads) Also Shabbat and Haggim I do something more special and give myself more allowances, whereas with the group -Shabbat is not a special day.Need to get our goals right- in order to do Avodat Hashem, we have to learn to curb our desires, whether it be for food, sex, drugs, alcohol or other behavior.I still have downfalls, mostly out of the house, as I am a compulsive