maybe the biggest issue is that i have apparently lost my sense of adventure. i used to go everywhere by myself. i even enjoyed it. all i needed was a book, and lots of good music, and i didn't mind being on my own. in fact, i have always been a little solitary by nature. but in the last 10 years, i seem to have forgotten how to go by myself. and my husband is a worker by nature. he loves to be ho