I???m not quite sure what point I???m trying to make here (sorry!), maybe just that its very easy to blame the victims, especially if they are drunk or dressed to stand out, and therefore necessary to make an extra effort not to do this. giselle // Posted 30 October 2009 at 09:17For chrissakes, to Elly who thinks that only a certain type of woman attracts abusive men, or to the commenters who beli