A mother of two, she lives in Honolulu, where she is the associate director of Hawaii Opera Theater, a keyboard specialist for the Honolulu Symphony, and a faculty member at the University of Hawaii. ???I feel so fortunate to have had the Ford scholarship,??? says Freitas, who has worked with musicians such as Leonard Bernstein and Yo Yo Ma. ???It changed my life completely, as did Oberlin.??? Cyn