Or divorce or something else?I think you are confusing me with Anonymous" as far as the anonymity of the person-that is not my comment!Now that we have done our hopefully final move, the kids can/do have friends over--we have a good sized yard, if I am not here my mom is, they have a tree house and a barn and all kinds of places to explore and have fun, but for a bit there it just was a bad scene, w