The how assholish are we allowed to be in the obit thread of an asshole is well-trod ground and needs to go to MetaTalk, not here.posted by jessamyn at 8:10 AM on March 1, 2012 [8 favorites] Either his family will be better off without him, or their loss is a growth opportunity, or the benefit to the worlds as a whole offsets their personal misfortune.posted by Obscure Reference at 8:10 AM on Ma