to the baby in the middle of the night. whatever! i stay at home right now, but i have a baby to tend to. when he used to work 12 hour days, i did clean the house all the time had dinner ready every night, and did everything except laundry because it was hard to carry it 3 blocks up 40 degree hill with a baby. so i waited for him so that he could drive me there. but when he changed jobs and is n