You just have to seek the right people out and let them know you are around.posted by ed at 11:14 PM on December 29, 2004 If my bookstore experiences are any indication of bookstores in general, then bookstores are a great place to meet gay men.posted by drezdn at 11:30 PM on December 29, 2004 Look for someone a little older than you may have been looking for.posted by codeofconduct at 12:18 AM on