But now that she is in college, sex is the furthest thing from her mind, and she can thank her stern focus on schoolwork, and a two-year strong vow of celibacy for her way of thinking.???When I did have sex I was too young and that definitely wasn???t the way to go,??? she says. ???I was 16 at the time that I had sex, but I made the decision to be celibate a couple of years ago.