they are.posted by By The Grace of God at 10:10 AM on November 13, 2010 Sometimes, telling someone to sod off is the best thing for them - you are sparing them from any additional eneegy they may expend on hoping for more with you.posted by OneMonkeysUncle at 10:12 AM on November 13, 2010 [1 favorite] I know this may seem passive aggressive, but ignoring her is fine.