???After / the afterlife, there???s an afterlife.??? In Silverchest, his twelfth book, Carl Phillips considers how our fears and excesses, the damage we cause both to others and to ourselves, intentional and not, can lead not only to a kind of wisdom but also to renewal, maybe even joy, if we???re willing to commit fully to a life in which ???I love you / means what, exactly???? In poems shot thro